How I Became My Own Worst Enemy: The Story of My Self-inflicted Curse

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My self-inflicted curse has been my constant need for perfection. This curse has plagued me for as long as I can remember, causing me a great deal of stress and anxiety in my life. From a young age, I was always striving to be the best at everything I did. Whether it was academics, sports, or any other endeavor, I felt the need to excel and surpass everyone else. While this drive initially fueled my success, it soon became a burden that I could not escape. This curse of perfectionism has affected every aspect of my life.



Oct 31 Fun Holiday – Magic Day

October 31 is Magic Day, a day that commemorates the life and times of one of the world’s best-known magicians Harry Houdini.

Bring some magic in your life on Magic Day.

Best known for his escapist acts, Houdini died on this date in 1926 and this unofficial holiday was created a year after Harry Houdini's death as Houdini Day. The Society of American Magicians also organizes a National Magic Week every year from October 25 to October 31 as a way to celebrate and appreciate the art and science behind magic.

This curse of perfectionism has affected every aspect of my life. It has made me a workaholic, constantly pushing myself to the brink of exhaustion in pursuit of flawlessness. I would spend countless hours on a single task, obsessing over every detail until it met my impossibly high standards.

Magic Events

Practitioners of magic and magic enthusiasts all over the world celebrate the day by organizing magic events and performances.

Born as Erik Weisz in Hungary, Harry Houdini is still one of the world's best known escapologist and stunt performer. His famous escape acts include the milk can escape where he escaped after being sealed in a milk can filled with water and the straightjacket act, in which he escaped after being straitjacketed and suspended by his ankles from a crane.

In addition to being an escape artist, Houdini was also a silent film actor and an avid aviator.

Magic Day is also known as National Magic Day in the United States.

My self inflicted curse

This not only caused me burnout but also strained my relationships with others, as I often neglected them in my quest for perfection. The curse of perfectionism also played a large role in my mental health. The fear of failure and the pressure I put on myself to be perfect led to high levels of stress and anxiety. I would constantly worry about not meeting my own expectations and would berate myself for even the smallest mistakes. This self-criticism became a toxic cycle that I could not escape. Despite the negative impact it has had on my life, this curse of perfectionism is something that I have created myself. No one else is to blame for the constant need to be perfect; it is a burden that I have placed upon myself. Realizing this has been both liberating and challenging. On one hand, I understand that I have the power to break free from this curse and redefine my own standards of success. On the other hand, it is difficult to break free from a way of thinking that has been deeply ingrained in me for so long. I have come to realize that perfection is an unattainable goal. No matter how hard I try, there will always be flaws and imperfections. Accepting this truth has been the first step in breaking free from my self-inflicted curse. It has allowed me to reevaluate my priorities and focus on self-care and self-compassion. While the curse of perfectionism still lingers within me, I am determined to break free from its grip. I am learning to embrace my imperfections and recognize that they are what make me human. By letting go of the need for perfection, I can finally find peace and happiness in my life..

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